Pathways

Pathways Counselling….

Hello…

There are moments when you might find giving yourself time and space may enable you to explore your emotions and experiences. These might be life situations (such as a specific current issue, a traumatic event or events, bereavement, divorce, burnout, relational issues or significant life change), critical feelings about yourself or long term relationship patterns that you feel are causing you distress (from the past or present or future concerns). Everyone comes to therapy for a unique reason because no two experiences are the same. The hope is that you get time to hear your thoughts, understand yourself and begin to live life in a way you are more comfortable with.

Therapy can provide the opportunity to explore thoughts and feelings that you might not feel able to share with those around you.  This could enable you to view yourself and relationships in different ways; opening up new or different paths to understanding yourself. People who come to see me have a range of experiences that bring them, such as trauma (PTSD, CPTSD), attachment related issues, self-esteem issues, bereavement, domestic violence, divorce, anger management, loss, anxiety, and depression. 

Self Esteem

Self esteem or negative thoughts about yourself can be a constant source of anxiety and difficult to talk through or understand. These might be related to work, burnout, relational issues, trauma, or many other experiences or reasons. By giving yourself time to explore the patterns of negative thoughts about yourself (body image, guilt, self-worth, feeling rejected by others or struggling with intimacy) this can open up different paths and ways of seeing yourself and those around you.

Depression

Clients often state how distressing and vulnerable it feels to live with depression and sometimes they are unable to share those feelings with friends, family or work colleagues. By allowing time to explore the feelings that are often kept hidden in a confidential, contained space, can enable understanding and different pathways in life to emerge.

Bereavement 

Bereavement therapy can provide a space where you might be able to explore your grief without someone saying you have to ‘move on’ and to understand that your grief might be very different to those around you, as every person’s grief is a unique journey to them. I have previously worked as a bereavement co-ordinator and a therapist for a hospice and then with many bereaved clients in private practice.

Trauma (PTSD, CPTSD, Attachment and relational trauma)

If you have been involved in a single event trauma (such as a road traffic accident, physical attack, sudden bereavement …)  or more complex trauma and experience the main trauma symptoms (intrusive thoughts about the situation/s people, avoidance of areas/programmes/people associated with your trauma, and hypervigilance of constantly being watchful for potential danger) EMDR therapy could help you. 

‘I am a fully qualified psychotherapist (Accredited MBACP) and an Accredited EMDR Consultant. Based in Wendover,  I offer day and early evening sessions. I practice short term therapy, longer term psychotherapy, EMDR therapy, Attachment Informed EMDR, single session informed therapy and walking therapy.  We would work together to explore what might be appropriate for you.”

Victoria Darby

MA, PgDip, BSc
EMDR Accredited Consultant
MBACP Accredited

Psychotherapy

Short term or long term Psychotherapy  

EMDR

Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing

 

AF-EMDR

Attachment Focused Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing

Walking Therapy

Walking Therapy

Victoria Darby

MA, Pg Dip, BSc, MBACP Accredited, EMDR Consultant

Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy is not driven by specific goals but by you trying to understand your patterns of relating to others and yourself

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EMDR
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an integrative psychotherapy approach that has been extensively researched and proven effective for the treatment of trauma.

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AF EMDR
Attachment Focused EMDR focuses on working with relationship traumas and the experience of struggling to attach or over attaching with people.

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Walking Therapy
Walking therapy offers you the experience of talking through situations and issues in an environment that grounds you.

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Get In Touch

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Call

07552 086 133

Email

victoria@pathways-counselling.co.uk

Hours

Mon – Fri: 8am – 9pm
Saturday: 8am – 12pm